The Mediator must have patience and tact in creating, building, and maintaining rapport between parties and himself. We can say that mediation is the dealing among parties and mediator.

1.       He must be alert not only to what the party but also concentrate on body language to assess the party’s truthfulness, degree of cooperation, and current mood of people. He must to know about when to give the party a break and when to press the party harder by their arguments. Mediator constantly must be alert to his environmental changes to ensure his personal security. The Mediator must have patience and tact in creating, building, and maintaining rapport between parties and himself. We can say that mediation is the dealing among parties and mediator.